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Single for more than 10 years - am I relationship-phobic?

Hey freshsingles, briefly to me ... I am male and have been single for exactly 10 years and 11 months. Actually, I'm fine. But since I'm already 36 years old, I'm slowly getting the fear of being left on the shelf. My last and at the same time longest relationship lasted almost three years and was actually great. However, I did not have many long-term relationships.
The last few years have also been okay, sometimes I even really like to be alone. I'm just afraid that I've got used to my freedom too much and that I won't find a girl for a long-term relationship at all.
By the way, I look normal and I'm actually quite athletic. I also have a variety of hobbies and thus keep coming into contact with new people. Unfortunately the right one with whom I would like to spend the rest of my life was not there yet!

I am a demanding person, but that alone can't be the reason? Am I perhaps relationship-phobic? Do I still have a chance to find my dream woman?