Reading Female Flirting Signals. How Do I Know That a Woman Thinks I Am Attractive and That I Should Address Her?
I am a very shy guy and my experiences with women in real life have been very straightforward so far. Specifically, that means that I have problems addressing women. I am also very insecure and then the woman will probably notice that too. If I then overcome myself and try to get in contact with a lady, I often have the feeling that I am out of place and that the moment is not the right one right now. And that's almost always the case. So far I have mostly only had negative experiences when it comes to addressing women. That's why I'm very insecure. The more often I get rebuffed, the more my uncertainty naturally increases. Is it me - my appearance - or am I misunderstanding the signals given by women? I just don't understand the world of women. Who can help me?
The most important thing is not to give up! Maybe your timing is really wrong. But it's actually not that difficult. Just take it easy. If you're out and you like a woman, keep an eye on her first. Keep looking at her. But be careful not to look intrusive! Also important: SMILE! Don't grin stupidly, smile friendly. If she then returns your looks several times and also smiles at you, then you have to act. Now is the right time to address your dream woman. So don't think too much, react! But how to address a woman? Preferably based on the situation! Just flirt with her. Actually, it doesn't matter what you say, the main thing is that NO clumsy, memorized sayings. Et voila .. you have already successfully established contact. The best thing is to train this over and over again. Remember, if addressing a woman doesn't work, you will never see her again anyway. Along these lines - good luck!
I would advise you not to approach the matter so tightly. It is best to try not to make a strict distinction between 'addressing women' and other casual situations. Just get used to making more small talk in general and addressing people around you in everyday situations. Then you gradually lose your shyness and have less inhibitions.
In this way you also train your feeling for when it is better to stick with a nice, friendly exchange of words and when you can expand the conversation without appearing intrusive. And when at some point you talk to a woman who you like, you shouldn't force everything right away. First of all, enjoy the opportunity to talk to each other in an unbiased manner.
If you don't know her or if you don't know whether you will ever see her again, you can say at the end of the small talk that you think it would be nice if you meet again at some point. Then you will notice from her reaction whether she would like that too, and everything else will follow ... If, for example, she is your colleague, a neighbor or any other person in your area who you will surely meet again anyway, I would really leave it the first time with a relaxed, unconstrained small talk and only show at a second or third meeting that I would like to get to know her better.
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