Relationship problems please help me I just don't know what to do next! Should i really break up?
Hi, everyone,
I'm really bad at the moment! I just don't know what to do next. My relationship has been in crisis for so long. I have been married to my husband for more than 9 years. The first few years were really nice, but at the moment I'm about to give up everything and break up. We have been in a crisis for a long time. Strictly speaking, I would say the last 3 years in which it has become more intense. We're always just quarreling. When he comes from work we greet each other lovingly, but something else is different. The weekends usually go by just like that. We used to at least do something together again. Today the highlight at the weekend is usually shopping. I know this will certainly read very sadly now - but it is the truth. I've thought about separation a few times, but I'm scared of this step. Maybe someone of you was / is in the same situation and can give me tips. I look forward to an exchange of experiences!
Hello, it reads like you've grown apart! But apparently you want to try your marriage again or did I get it wrong? Of course, it always takes two. What does your husband think or what does he say, how does he see the situation? Is he satisfied with the situation or is it also a burden for him?
Basically, I advise everyone to talk to their partner first. It is important that he knows that you are unhappy, otherwise he has no way of changing anything in your marriage or relationship.
The first question you should ask yourself is: Do you still love him?!
Of course, a relationship not only includes love, but also dealing with one another.
If you still love him and he is ready to work with you on your problems then I would give him another chance in your position. But if there is still no improvement you should really break up to make yourself happy again.
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