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How can I resist to see if she is online?

I fell madly in love with a super cute girl. Have already met us personally and I think she thinks I am very personable. Now I always have to check whether she is online. Actually, I'm not jealous at all or anything. But when I see that she is or was online and has not written to me, then I feel a kind of jealousy. But we are not (yet) together, so not a couple yet. Is that the same for you when you are super in love?

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This behavior is quite normal at the beginning. You are super in love with the absolute dream woman and would love to spend every second with her. But you will find that this will subside over time. Since you are not together yet, I advise you to stay interesting for the woman anyway. That means you can't always answer her directly or run after her like a dog. The tip against constantly checking whether she is online: distraction. Go out with your buddies or do things you enjoy. The rest will take care of itself.

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