Deepblueriver11 From Durham Looking for a Partner

About myself

Were you searching for a slightly irrepressible, sometimes irreverent, a little footloose, part-time writer and non-working librarian? Surprise! You found one anyway!
If you’re a control freak who cannot accept a strong woman, please stop reading here. My desire for a lasting relationship is genuine but I already know I cannot be with you. Bought that ticket, hated the concert!
I am what I am. No guile, no games. No hidden agendas. (Shh! Don't tell anyone but I'm really a softie inside.) I am not an appearance snob but I will snub dishonesty permanently.
Even though I describe myself as average, you will soon learn there’s very little “average” about me. Perfect? No, but definitely not average. I march to my own drummer and prefer this "music" even when it’s a bit off key.
And “slender” is in the eye of the beholder. I wear sizes 8—10. You decide.
I do not argue. Ever.
You will find me open and direct with a slightly offbeat sense of humor; I absolutely refuse to take life in general too seriously. “Stuff” happens but it’s pointless to dwell on “what ifs” and “might have beens. ”
A keen wit in others is an absolute must and ranks right up there with not smoking in importance in my book. I thrive on laughter and fast-paced banter while music warms my soul. And I run from negative people as though the Hounds of Hell are on my heels.

What I'm looking for

Good conversation always trumps television but I do enjoy watching college football (and the Steelers). I also enjoy a “wee bit of the grape” and the occasional Margarita (it took more than a “wee bit” for me to publish this profile originally). Reading, writing, exploring new places, walking and driving my little red car are among the things that give me the most pleasure. (I read "Click and Clack" mostly for the humor though.)
Cook? Yes, I can. But I go to great lengths to avoid cooking just for myself. (Thank heavens for protein bars, good restaurants and the microwave! )
After w-a-a-a-y too many years, I’ve finally found my niche. I’ve shaken off small town dust and moved to Midtown The atmosphere here is positively electric and its friendliness and diversity make this little Atlanta city-within-a-city truly a place a source of great personal contentment for me. I love every minute of every day here.

What is important to me

To be honest, faithful, nice, truthful and open heart person

Turn-ons & turn-offs

Camping, fishing, reading, cooking, watching TV

Men from Durham wanted for

Dating & relationship
Flirt & adventures
Meet friends & find new friendships
I just want to look around

Music

Pop / rock, jazz, country, r&b / soul, alternative

Interests & Hobbies

Watch movies in the cinema, do sports, maintain friendships, listen music, travel to foreign countries, bake cakes

Sports

Soccer, bowling, swimming, cycling, tennis

Favorite books

Novels, Magazine, comics, inspirational book, new papers and romantic poem

Favorite movies

Adventure, Action, Thriller, Comedy, Horror, True life Story, Romance, Documentary, Animation

Favorite TV shows

Opera show, Monique show, Jerry Springer show

Where to find me in Durham

Beach, camping, fishing, museum, Theater

Education

College

Profession

To have work and earning money is essential for living, but I don't want to trust a dating site with this information. Just ask me!

Languages

English

Ethnicity

White / Caucasian

Smoking

Non-smoker