Tommy2419 from New York: Free Online Dating Service

My self-description

I am by name Thomas Jefferson I stay in new York looking for single ladies who are ready to mingle and you can message me on my telegram at
@ThomasAnderson369
I am looking for a serious and loyal partner who love and take care of me and make me happy

I'm looking for

What am I looking for?
It’s a question that lives in the quiet spaces between heartbeats, in the restless turn before sleep, in the sudden stillness when a crowded room goes blurry and you’re left alone with your own mind.

Sometimes, it feels like a search for a place—a corner of the world that feels like it was shaped for your shoulders, a spot where the light falls just right, where you can finally exhale and think, “Here. This is it. ”
But often, that place isn’t on a map. It’s a state of being. A feeling of alignment, where what you do, who you are, and who you love exist in harmony, without apology.

Other times, it’s a search for a person. Not just anyone, but the one whose silence feels like conversation, whose presence feels like home. Or maybe it’s a version of yourself—the one you remember or the one you hope to become—less burdened, more alive, braver in the ways that matter.

There are days it feels purely practical: a better job, a clearer purpose, a signpost pointing toward “what’s next. ”
And then there are the deeper tides: a longing for meaning, for a thread that connects the scattered beads of experience into something that resembles a story worth telling.

I think, at the core, we’re looking for resonance.
That shiver of recognition when an idea, a piece of music, a landscape, or a gaze feels eerily familiar, as if it was always meant to find you.
We’re looking to feel real—to be truly seen, understood, and chosen, not for our masks, but for our messy, vulnerable, authentic selves.

We’re looking for moments that fill us, not just pass through us.
For work that doesn’t just pay the bills but ignites something.
For love that doesn’t just comfort but expands us.
For peace that isn’t the absence of noise, but the presence of calm within it.

And perhaps most of all, we’re looking for connection:
To others, to the world, to some sense of the sacred in the ordinary.
To feel that we belong here, that we are part of something larger than our own worries.

But the search itself is not a detour from life—it is life.
The looking shapes us. It teaches us what we value, what we can endure, what we must release.
The answer to “What am I looking for? ” often reveals itself not in the finding, but in the courage to keep asking, to stay awake to the question even when the noise of the world tries to drown it out.

So maybe what we’re really looking for is aliveness.
The electric current of being here, fully, in this fleeting, breathtaking, heartbreaking, beautiful human experience—and knowing, somehow, that the search is the point.
That in the seeking, we are already found

What is important to me

As a single one probably have different views than in a relationship. For me, things like romance, open-mindedness and being in love are most important for a serious relationship.

Erotic is for me

Is this important to find a new partner? I'm only telling you personally❗️ Anyway, I'm looking for a serious relationship ❤️ and you?

I'm looking for people for

Dating & relationship
near New York & the surrounding area

Music

Rap, heavy metal, r&b / soul, reggae

Interests & Hobbies

Books, cinema, play an instrument, being activ in sporting activities, meet friends, take a rest, listen music, art / creative working, computer / internet / games

Sports

Football

Favorite books

One should read a good book every day. Whether I really have time to read a lot as a single? Just drop me a line and ask me.

Favorite movies

Watching a movie with my partner is super nice. Oh, a nice thought :)

Favorite TV shows

Isn't it a good topic to talk about while getting to know each other? What would you say if I tell you this on our first casual date?

Where can you meet me in New York

Where you can date me, I will not reveal on a online dating site.

Education

Bachelor's degree

Profession

Having a job is essential for living, but I don't want to trust a online dating service with this information. Just ask me.

Languages

English, Spanish, German, French, Chinese, Tagalog, Japanese, Russian, Vietnamese, Portuguese, Hindi, Arabic

Ethnicity

One shouldn't deny one's origin, but I'll only tell you personally.

Smoking

Non-smoker