ELsmith From Ithaca - Personal Ad: She Is Looking for Her

That's me

I’m a grounded, loyal, and hardworking woman who keeps life real and values the things that actually matter. I’m big on family, creativity, and building a life that feels steady, warm, and drama‑free. I show up for the people I care about, and I put genuine effort into everything I do — whether it’s taking care of my home, supporting the people I love, or working toward my own goals. I’m not interested in chaos or mixed signals. I appreciate honesty, consistency, and grown communication from someone who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to act like it.

I’m creative, hands‑on, and always learning something new. I love making things, solving problems, and finding ways to make life smoother and more meaningful. I’m strong, caring, and self‑aware, and I’m always improving. I know my worth, and I’m looking for someone who respects that — a man with goals, backbone, and a good heart. Someone who’s steady, loyal, and ready for something real. If you value effort, respect, and building a genuine connection, we’ll get along well.

I'm looking for

I’m looking for a man who knows who he is, what he wants, and how to treat someone with respect. I’m not interested in games, confusion, or half‑effort. I want someone who shows up with consistency, honesty, and real communication — the kind of man who understands that a healthy relationship is built through actions, not excuses. I value loyalty, stability, and emotional maturity. If you can’t communicate, take accountability, or handle life without creating chaos, we won’t be a match.

I’m drawn to someone who works hard, has goals, and takes pride in the life he’s building. A man who’s steady, dependable, and grounded, but still knows how to laugh, have fun, and enjoy the simple things. I want a partner who supports me the way I support him — someone who understands teamwork, effort, and showing up for each other. I’m not looking for perfection, just someone real, genuine, and willing to grow together.

I want a connection that feels safe, balanced, and natural. Someone who values family, appreciates loyalty, and understands the importance of trust. A man who can match my energy, my effort, and my intentions. If you’re looking for something real, something steady, and something built on mutual respect, then we’re already on the same page.

What's important for me

What is important to me as a single in a relationship? I don't want to answer this in public on a dating site. You can ask me personally for my opinion.

Erotic is for me

There are so many women that I find attractive. But I don't like to tell a stranger, because we don't even know each other! Hope you understand that.

Singles wanted for

Meet friends & find new friendships
from Ithaca and the surrounding area

Music

Music can inspire, but my general taste in music remains a secret for now. Do you want to chat and I will tell you about my favorite music?

Interests

I find a lot of topics interesting. And you? Let's do something together, what do you think?

Sports

I prefer to do sports with my partner, otherwise I wouldn't have registered with a dating site, would I 😊 So where are you?

Favorite books

You should read books every day. Do I actually have time to read a lot as a single? Just write me a line and ask me about my reading habits.

Favorite movies

Who doesn't like to go to the cinema to watch a good movie? If you want to know what kind of movies touch me emotionally besides love films 😉 just chat with me!

Favorite TV shows

Watching television is a good way to distract yourself from everyday life, but I didn't feel like listing all of my favorite tv series here.

My favorite places where you can find me in Ithaca

Where you can get to know me, I will not reveal on a online dating site. But you can ask me!

Education

I will only tell you one-on-one what level of education I have.

Profession

Work and making money is essential for survival, but I don't want to entrust this information a dating service. Just ask me.

Languages

In an international dating site it is an advantage to speak many languages, but I don't want to say which languages I speak other than English just yet.

Ethnicity

One shouldn't deny one's origin! I would be happy to tell you personally.

Smoking

Non-smoker