Blackboy5k Looking for a Lifetime Partner: Man Seeking Woman From Lagos

Who I am

He wears a casual short-sleeved polo shirt in soft pastel shades: light pinkish-lavender upper half transitioning into pale mint-green lower half, featuring a bold “BRAND 85 3D” (or similar)graphic print across the chest in white lettering. The shirt is worn untucked and slightly oversized, ending mid-thigh over a pair of medium-blue denim jeans that look well-fitted but relaxed through the leg. On his feet are grey athletic sneakers with a speckled/dappled pattern and dark laces, appearing slightly dusty from the environment.

A black backpack with visible straps rests on both shoulders; the straps are reasonably thick and the bag itself looks moderately filled. In his right hand he casually holds a smartphone (screen facing outward but dark/off), while his left hand rests near his side.

Directly behind him is the rear half of a dark grey (or metallic charcoal)Toyota sedan (likely a Camry or similar model), parked on the dirt/grass area. The car’s trunk, taillights, chrome exhaust tip, and alloy wheel are visible. Further back stands a single-storey building with cream/beige walls and a reddish-brown or orange-painted section. A prominent sign on the wall reads something along the lines.

What I'm looking for

As a guy who's still figuring life out, here's how I picture my future partner — real talk, no fairy-tale filter:

She's gotta have that quiet strength, you know? Not loud or always trying to prove something, but the kind of calm that makes everything feel steady even when life is mad chaotic. Like, when I'm stressing over school fees, transport, or just adulting in general, she doesn't panic — she just thinks with me, prays with me if that's our vibe, and we sort it step by step.

I want someone who laughs easy. Not fake giggles, but the kind where her eyes close a little and you can tell it's coming from her chest. Bonus if she can roast me properly when I dey do nonsense, but still make me feel like her favorite person after.

Spiritually, we need to connect there too. I want a woman who loves God genuinely — not just for Sunday pictures, but someone who actually talks to Him when nobody's watching. That matters a lot to me.

Looks-wise? I'm not chasing Instagram perfection. Clean skin, nice smile, carries herself well — that's enough. I like natural hair (braids, twists, afro, whatever she feels like), decent dress sense (can rock both church Ankara and simple jeans + top), and yeah… a little curve never hurt nobody 😏.

Most important: she has to be kind. Kind to street kids, kind to her family, kind even when she's annoyed. Because character lasts way longer than fine face.

And chemistry? I want that "I can't wait to tell her this silly thing that happened" energy. The one where we can gist for hours about nothing and everything, pray together, plan stupid future dreams like "one day we go get house with plenty land make we plant mango", then fall asleep laughing at how broke we still are right now.

Basically… my best friend, my peace, my motivator, my soft place to land. Someone who sees the real me — the broke student, the dreamer, the sometimes overthinker — and still chooses to stay and build with me.

What's important for me

Open minded

I find that erotic

Eroticism and my sexual inclinations are too intimate for me! I'll tell you privately.

Women wanted for

Dating & relationship
from the Lagos area

Music

Pop / rock, rap

Interests

Being activ in sports, listen songs, surf the internet

Sports

Football, jogging

Favorite books

The second chance

Favorite movies

Fast x

Favorite TV shows

Tvc

Favorite places to meet me in Lagos

I can’t say

Education

Associate degree

Profession

Architecture / interior design

Languages

English

Ethnicity

Black / African

Smoking

Non-smoker